It is said that “he who finds love finds a beautiful thing”, but what about staying in love?
Anybody can love you but not everyone can remain true and loyal to you because you undergo some changes that can make you misbehave sometimes.
Courtship and Marriage now is a norm that even the youths want to get a taste of without being informed. Most of them fail to think ahead but just want to revel in the present and believe the future will take care of itself while the big questions are being ignored.
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Engagement is a phase whereby two people (a male and a female) get to know each other in readiness for the long term goal (marriage). Courtship is different from dating but people nowadays equate them.
While dating is still a growing indecisive process, courtship is an agreed phase where decisions are already sealed.
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The idea of having a partner can be so overwhelming and some would go to any length, wait and even endure tantrums for a long period of time just to get the woman or man of their dreams.
While some see this as sacred, others see it as an avenue to just have fun, some an avenue to have sex whenever they want, some as a means of extortion, some for selfish interests and so on. One common thing to all these ideas of courtship is love, even though not all seem to understand the concept.
During courtship, partners seem to get along so well because they really cannot get enough of each other and because it is just them without interference.
During courtship, partners seem to remember everything about each other from birthdays to anniversaries to knowing all about both families, each other’s likes and dislikes, favourite dishes and allergies, just to mention a few and not to forget the surprise gifts and treats they give each other, which in the long run, may lead to the next phase (marriage).