Break up has gone viral among youngster, couples and even elderly people. Everyone wants to get a taste of it without being informed.
The Mistakes we make is the failure to think ahead of time or what may happen next. We have believed so much in ourselves, and we become the victim of ourselves.
Situations in life make us change no matter how much we try hard to never change.
The most viral believe among humans is the fantasy of believing there will soon be a better day without preparing or working towards it.
Emotional complications have destroyed thousand of relationship. Previous experiences in relationships have turned many people against themselves, bringing the fear of not trying again.
There is a popular saying in town, Anyone can be in Love, but not everyone can experiences Love!
6 Break Up Secrets You Never Knew.
Truth: Truth is the hardest part of human. Sometimes we actually want to say the truth, but the fear of losing another always overwhelm our heart. In some situations, covering up lies saves the day, but not in a relationship.
Being Truthful means to be
- Positive Instinct
Sexual Orientation: A lot of people are yet to know their sexual category. One of the biggest mistakes in starting up a relationship is giving lasting assurance to someone who has a different sexual orientation from yours. You may find this funny, but this is why you keep breaking up all the time.
There are 8 Sexual Categories discussed in the blog and you may find yourself lucky knowing where you belong to;
Differences: All of us are human, but we have great differences. Break up in a relationship may occur if there are a lot of differences in relationship affairs. Few people who pretend to cope with the high rate differences end up broken into pieces. Don’t try to start a relationship with people you hardly know, the best person you can date is your best friend.
End of Secret Lovers
Why would you start a relationship that you are not proud of? or are you afraid of what might happen when people know about your relationship status? Are you afraid of your past that has turned to a nightmare?
The earth is no place for secret if there’s any reason why you need to make your relationship private (not secret) then that reason should be genuine enough and make it open to your partner. Secrets don’t last forever, Confession guarantees a healthy lifestyle.
My friend Jane told me a story in 2016, how she got disvirgin and got pregnant by a club rat in New York. She said, on her birthday her boyfriend forgot totally to wish her a belated birthday or send present. She waited all day for his calls, msgs but she never got any.
In the evening, she was emotionally depressed about everything and she decides to go clubbing with her friends where met the rich club rat who got her to disvirgin and impregnate her that same night.
She said I didn’t have a choice but shit happened.
If you value your relationship, then you should never forget the most valuable time about your partner.
- Picnic etc.
Ladies don’t joke with notable days, to them every day in life should be like a Christmas.
Appearance: Don’t hesitate to dress well and smell good. It’s not until you put on the best, but be neat, and odourless.
The End To Secret Love Birds
I lost my first love in 2015 after I impregnated my her. She was 21 and studying English Major at the university, I was 22 studying Computer Science. After she got pregnant and we later concluded on abortion I start to have strong emotional complications:
- Loss-of Self Confidence and lots.
We end up breaking up, even thou we share a great bond between ourselves.
We departed for so many years and I find it difficult to start a new relationship life.
The Trauma was heavy, and I learnt to know my sexual orientation in a difficult way. ”Ademola”
Most people have seen dating as an avenue to have fun, sex, extortion, slavery, governance, competition etc. and these why you keep falling day and night.
Goodbye to Break up.
- Be truthful to your partner in all
- Keep a positive vibe
- Maintain a Healthy and Neat Lifestyle
- Get Expose to Family Matters and Home Organization
- Learn Homemade Activites
- Know your sexual category
- Remember important days in your relationship.
- Study human differences.
Finally, Some People Excel At Break Up And Some Don’t – Which One Are You?